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I love being in control – having things just right and knowing that they’re going to stay that way. There’s nothing better than the knowledge that if I plan carefully and get the people around me to...
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“It’s not fair!” Don’t you hate those whiny victims – always complaining about the problems in their lives? Why don’t they just get it together and do something about it! Right? Don’t look now, but...
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There’s a rat in my attic. Or, more precisely, there’s a rat in the crawl space above my ceiling. It started one Saturday at midnight, I heard the rustle of little feet running across the ceiling of my...
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You know it, that flare of anger, that feeling of “I HAVE to say something, NOW!” I know it well, it’s been the precursor to many of my most inappropriate outbreaks of temper. Our “F” energy puts us...
View ArticleINFJs – Surviving a Toxic Work Environment
Photo: Getty For eighteen years I worked for a company that valued Extroversion, Sensing and Thinking. As an INFJ I sometimes felt like I was on a battlefield. Fortunately Judging skills were also...
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